Ways to cope with stress
Stress is
inevitable. You just can’t completely block it from attacking you daily. You
always find yourself carrying some kinds of weight at the end of the day----be
it from your job, family, relationship, or even the bills.
When you let stress go over you
live, you tend to become irritated, nervous, scared. But don’t back off. Fight
back. You have the power more than what you thought to manage the stress and
thus make an enjoyable stay in this life. How? Here are the guides you can
follow to keep the stress into the minimum level.
Know its causes
Figuring out the reasons behind the
stress is not as simple as it seems to be. Sometimes, you need to look not on the
situation itself, but rather on how you act towards its. For example,
you’ve given a task with enough time to accomplish, but due to your constant
delaying and prioritizing of the less urgent things, like TV watching or Facebooking,
you’ll likely to become panicky when you’ve realized you’re running too far
behind the task. Stress is not only rooted on the scenario you’re caught to,
but also on your approaches and excuses.
Manage your time wisely
Time
is truly as precious as gold. It is one of those essential things that will
never come back once you wasted them. You may realize that when the time available is too narrow to
finish an important task, you’ll get annoyed, panic and may eventually give up.
Thus, don’t ever procrastinate---do your project, study your lessons, prepare
for the business report, plan ahead of time. If
someone or something is blocking your way, don’t just shrug and go with the
flow; be assertive and face it. When a friend calls for a chat but you know you
need to study for a big exam tomorrow, be frank and say that you just have a
few minutes for talking. In this way, you’ll
find yourself more focused on what you’re doing, thus accomplishing
more at once. As one successful author said, “Don’t eat the marshmallow yet.”
Always remember
that a healthy body is more prepared to handle stress than a weak and
tired one. So feed yourself with the energy needed to
start the day. Make it a habit to exercise regularly. Even just 15 minutes of mild
exercising will help you to be revitalized for the next hours. Also, be sure to
give yourself a deep continuous sleep every night. If you’re really tired with
what you’re studying, better get some sleep than force yourself to study
further, because your exhausted mind will naturally stop itself from loading
additional information.
Take time to relax
Give yourself a break. Free yourself to the bustling life once in a while
and do something you want. It’s not a luxury that you can just pass on anyway;
it’s more like a need that you have to meet in order to carry on with your life.
Go to the beach, take a walk at the
park, chat with your friend, go to the spa, or even do stargazing.
Is
there someone who’s been annoying you? Does your boss give you a seemingly
impossible deadline, or a lover fail to meet you on time? Don’t bottle up your
feelings since these may explode before you can help it. Secretly resenting doesn’t help improve the situation
anyway. It will just cause you to resent
more and burden your heart. So share your concerns to a close friend if someone
or something troubles you.
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