Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Finding True Love

How to find true love

“For true love is patient; it is kind. It’s not jealous, nor it is blind, and love rejoices in the truth, not in the wrong. Love never ends.”

The extraordinary Taj Mahal, the astonishing painting of Mona Lisa and even the great Trojan War----all of these were made because of love.  

True love brings the heaven closer to the earth. It makes life effortless, spontaneous, beautiful, and worth living for. It describes life; it defines us. It is the delicately bizarre feeling when we know we finally meet the one we are dreaming for, the one who doesn’t love us for what we have, but for who we are. It’s an amazing, unexplainable connection that magically ignites between the two hearts----no reason, no grounds, just pure love. So what’s the secret password to reach this emotional attachment?

Love yourself first

Yes, you certainly deserve to be loved, but do you even give yourself the love you’re looking for? Do you value your strengths, talents and beauty? Or do you criticize your weakness and inabilities, always compare yourself with others and wish that someday you could change your façade? Then maybe you should begin to love yourself first before anything and anyone. 

Take time to look at yourself, dig deeper into your hearts, and know your feelings, desires and even your obscurity. In this way, even though your potential relationship needs to come to its end, you’ll still have the love from yourself. This love will embrace and protect you from completely breaking into pieces, and when the time comes when you’ve cried enough, you’ll be ready to face the world and love again. 

Enjoy life while you’re single

Singles are not doomed. They are happy, even happier than those in relationships. They tend to be able to love more people and enjoy life at greater boundaries, since no lover would hold them back. So don’t take pity on yourself, you are not missing anything anyway. Look at you’re status as an opportunity to communicate with new people with common interest.  Get up and club on Saturday nights, do your extreme sports, go to the beach, invite your friends for a dinner party, go shopping, live life in a way you’ll never regret. With this vibrant attitude, you’ll be likely to eventually catch the eyes and meet you’re one true love.

Appreciate life

Value life-----and you’ll be surprised on how the universe will respond to make you value it more, like the possibility of finding true love. Appreciation is simply one of those highest positive vibrations you could ever feel in this world, and this usually bounces back to you in the sweetest form you’ve never expected---love. Thus, be grateful and live each day like you’ve never been so blessed before. Look and smile at the people, your home, your health, your friends and family, your cute pet waiting for your cuddle.

Know your ideal mate

Face it, there’s no perfect guy that exists. Yes, we would be initially attractive if the guy is gorgeous, rich, smart, independent, drives his own expensive car or other sorts of fanciness. We tend to become delusional with the perfect Prince Charming we dream of. It’s just sad that the guys have to keep up with these illusions. 

However, the truth is, we don’t really need all those immaculately faultless traits to be real happy in a relationship. We just need to know and identify those specific qualities that we must see in our ideal mate to be contented and fulfilled. If we don’t choose our future partner according to those qualities, we start to forcefully accept and settle in the relationship. We begin to fake our feelings and eventually resent him for not satisfying what we need in the long run, thus leading to bigger problems.

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